{"version":"https://jsonfeed.org/version/1.1","title":"Mad in Love — English","home_page_url":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/","feed_url":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/feed.json","description":"A fresh perspective on dating: practical guides to understand yourself, communicate and meet people. Women, men, couples, LGBTQIA+: at your pace, on your terms.","language":"en","items":[{"id":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/journal/presentation-site-rencontre/","url":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/journal/presentation-site-rencontre/","title":"Writing a dating profile: a clear introduction in your own voice","summary":"Use a real detail, a current intention and an opening for conversation without publishing your whole life.","content_html":"<h2>Say what you want to explore</h2><p>Start with your current intention: friendship, dating, a committed relationship or time to get to know someone. You can be clear without promising a future you have not chosen. If you are writing as a couple, explain who is speaking and leave room for each person&#39;s own expectations and decisions.</p><h2>Replace a list of qualities with a real detail</h2><p>“Curious and easy-going” leaves a reader to guess what that looks like. A fictional example is: “I like trying a new recipe on Sundays and discussing films after the credits.” Choose your own truthful details. They provide a subject to pick up without turning your introduction into a list of demands.</p><h2>Choose a tone you can continue using</h2><p>Read the text aloud. If you would not say it in a conversation, simplify it. Humour is optional, and a short introduction can be enough. A writing assistant may help with spelling, but invented hobbies or a borrowed personality create expectations you may not want to carry into a real exchange.</p><h2>Express a boundary as your choice</h2><p>A fictional example is: “I prefer to talk here first and decide together whether to meet.” This describes a preference without attacking people who use an app differently. A clear boundary is more useful than a long warning about every disappointing experience you have had. You can change your mind later.</p><h2>Keep some information for later</h2><p>A public introduction does not need your full address, employer, exact schedule or private history. Consider what you want a stranger to know before deciding what to publish. You can describe a general area or interest without exposing a routine. The French resources below provide additional privacy guidance.</p><h2>Leave a natural opening for a first message</h2><p>End with a question that genuinely interests you, or an activity you might enjoy discussing. For example: “Which exhibition would you recommend to someone new to the city?” Adapt this fictional line to your own interests. A reader is free to reply or not; the introduction creates an invitation, not an obligation.</p>","image":"https://mad-in-love.com/assets/editorial/556e5a12a019d524eced4c7be1b550e756657ebab2a1823d7ceeb044baf0bab1.webp","date_published":"2026-11-08T14:10:59.000Z","date_modified":"2026-11-08T14:10:59.000Z","authors":[{"name":"Daniel Ricklin"}],"tags":["Communication"]},{"id":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/journal/rencontres-amicales/","url":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/journal/rencontres-amicales/","title":"Making friends as an adult: from first conversations to shared plans","summary":"Choose an activity, make a simple invitation and leave room for friendship to develop at its own pace.","content_html":"<h2>Start with something you actually want to do</h2><p>Wanting more friends can feel vague. An activity gives that wish a practical starting point: a short walk, a pottery class, a book discussion or a coffee after work. Choose something you would enjoy even if the first conversation stays brief. You do not need to arrive with a story designed to impress.</p><h2>Look for opportunities to meet again</h2><p>A regular activity can give you another chance to talk without arranging a personal meeting immediately. Before joining, check the schedule, cost and format. A small group and a clear activity may suit you better than a large social event. These are options to try, not rules about where friendship must begin.</p><h2>State your intention on an app</h2><p>If you are looking for friendship, say so early. A fictional profile line could be: “I would like to meet people for exhibitions, easy walks and an occasional coffee. I am looking for friendship first.” Keep details broad enough to protect your routine and avoid describing someone else&#39;s personal life.</p><h2>Make an invitation easy to answer</h2><p>A specific, low-pressure invitation is easier to understand than “We should do something sometime.” For example: “I am considering the photography exhibition on Saturday afternoon. Would you be interested?” Leave room for a different date or a refusal. Avoid buying tickets for another person before agreeing on the plan and the cost.</p><h2>Notice reciprocity without keeping score</h2><p>Friendship does not require identical availability. Look for a pattern in which both people can suggest, respond and decline. A delayed reply is not a complete explanation of someone&#39;s intentions. You can make one clear invitation and then give the other person space, rather than turning each message into a test.</p><h2>Choose a next step that feels comfortable</h2><p>After an enjoyable meeting, mention something you liked and suggest another activity if you want to. You can also decide that the connection will remain occasional. For a first meeting with someone new, choose a public place and keep your own way home. The French public resources below provide additional reading; they do not guarantee an outcome.</p><h2>A practical route: invite, confirm, suggest another activity</h2><p>Fictional example to adapt, with no prescribed timetable. Before the outing: “You enjoy street photography; I’m thinking of a one-hour walk in the centre on Saturday. Would you like to join?” If the person accepts, agree on a public meeting point, time, duration and any costs. If they cannot come, leave room for them to suggest another occasion instead of sending repeated invitations.</p><p>Afterwards, refer to something you shared: “Thanks for the walk! You made me curious about that exhibition. We could go together another time if you’d like.” A positive reply can lead to another plan; a refusal or silence does not require an explanation. The aim is to make another occasion easy, not to turn every meeting into a lasting friendship.</p><h2>FAQ: suggesting a friendly outing</h2><p>How do I make it clear that I want friendship? Say so plainly in your profile and invitation: “I’m looking for people to share friendly outings with.” What if our schedules do not match? Suggest one alternative, then let each person decide; a regular activity that fits your routine may also help. Must I share my phone number before meeting? No. You can keep the conversation in the app and arrange a public meeting without sharing your home address.</p>","image":"https://mad-in-love.com/assets/editorial/b12741380ad875e61dd89a87c50ec012c4069459d21ce531b0423a7bdeea55d5.webp","date_published":"2026-11-08T14:09:24.000Z","date_modified":"2026-11-08T21:40:39.000Z","authors":[{"name":"Daniel Ricklin"}],"tags":["Communication"]},{"id":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/journal/handicap-et-rencontres/","url":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/journal/handicap-et-rencontres/","title":"Disability and dating: expressing your needs while keeping your privacy","summary":"Choose what to share, ask precise questions about venues and make room for each person's own decisions.","content_html":"<h2>Start with the person, not an assumption</h2><p>Disability does not tell you whether someone wants friendship, a relationship, physical affection or time alone. Ask about the person and their wishes rather than treating a label as an explanation of their whole life. The same attention applies when speaking to a couple: each person has their own voice and choices.</p><h2>Choose what you want to disclose</h2><p>You can explain a practical need without telling a stranger your medical history. For example, a fictional message might say: “I would prefer somewhere quiet where we can sit comfortably.” What you share can depend on the situation and your comfort. You do not owe an intimate explanation simply because a question is asked.</p><h2>Ask the venue concrete questions</h2><p>The word “accessible” can mean different things in practice. Depending on your needs, ask about the entrance, steps, seating, toilets, noise or transport nearby. Contact the venue directly for current details. A general label or an attractive photograph cannot confirm that a place will work for you on the day.</p><h2>Speak directly and allow time</h2><p>Address the person concerned rather than automatically speaking to a companion. Ask how they prefer to communicate and give them time to answer. An adapted communication method is a way to hear someone&#39;s own decision, not an invitation for another person to decide instead. It is fine to clarify something you have not understood.</p><h2>Keep agreement specific and reversible</h2><p>Accepting a conversation or a meeting does not mean agreeing to touch, a photograph or another activity. Ask rather than assume, and accept a change of mind without pressure. The French public information service Mon Parcours Handicap explains consent and intimate life; it is a resource, not evidence about any individual reader&#39;s circumstances.</p><h2>Let practical planning support the meeting</h2><p>You can agree on a meeting length, a rest option or a different activity if the original plan is uncomfortable. Both people should be able to express what works for them. If you need individual support, consult a suitable local service. This editorial guide does not assess medical needs or provide a personal legal opinion.</p>","image":"https://mad-in-love.com/assets/editorial/425f500e6c39f884d5a3e752eecdcdfb17a5d15149c1c3f0618ef573ef0568c7.webp","date_published":"2026-11-08T14:07:50.000Z","date_modified":"2026-11-08T14:07:50.000Z","authors":[{"name":"Daniel Ricklin"}],"tags":["Communication"]},{"id":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/journal/lieux-pour-faire-des-rencontres/","url":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/journal/lieux-pour-faire-des-rencontres/","title":"Where to meet new people: choosing places that make conversation possible","summary":"Find activities and public settings that fit your interests, your comfort and the kind of connection you want.","content_html":"<h2>Choose a shared setting, not a magic location</h2><p>No café, club or app can promise that you will meet a compatible person. A more useful starting point is a setting where you have something to do and are comfortable taking part. Think about whether you want friendship, dating or simply more social contact before choosing an activity.</p><h2>Use an activity as a conversation starter</h2><p>A class, a volunteering session or a cultural discussion can provide a subject without requiring an elaborate introduction. Check the actual purpose of the event and respect it. People who join an activity are not automatically available for romantic attention. Keep an exchange appropriate to the setting and the response you receive.</p><h2>Observe the context in cafés and cultural places</h2><p>A public place can be welcoming without being an invitation to interrupt everyone. Someone reading, working or talking privately may not want a conversation. A brief, relevant question can be enough to find out whether an exchange is welcome. If the answer is short or the person turns away, give them space.</p><h2>Consider an organised group outing</h2><p>A group activity can make the meeting point and shared plan clearer. Read the organiser&#39;s conditions, cost, accessibility information and cancellation arrangements. If you are arriving alone, ask how newcomers join the group. A listing is an opportunity to investigate, not proof that a certain number of people will attend.</p><h2>Find current options near you</h2><p>Look at venue programmes, association notices and event calendars, then confirm the details with the organiser. Select a broad area you can reach comfortably rather than publishing an exact home address. You may prefer a regular activity that fits your schedule to a one-off event chosen only because it sounds popular.</p><h2>Offer a next step without pressure</h2><p>If a conversation is mutual, you can suggest another public activity and ask whether the person is interested. A fictional example is: “I enjoyed talking about the exhibition. Would you like to visit the next one together?” Leave room to decline. The French public resources below are further reading, not a directory of verified local venues.</p>","image":"https://mad-in-love.com/assets/editorial/8140da041b22823f35828fc11871c9dffb3717b94bbd4723ab3028cb46051bc7.webp","date_published":"2026-11-08T14:06:13.000Z","date_modified":"2026-11-08T14:06:13.000Z","authors":[{"name":"Daniel Ricklin"}],"tags":["Practical guide"]},{"id":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/journal/photo-profil-rencontre/","url":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/journal/photo-profil-rencontre/","title":"Dating profile photos: looking like yourself and protecting your privacy","summary":"Choose a recognisable photograph, check the background and keep editing consistent with your real appearance.","content_html":"<h2>Aim to be recognisable</h2><p>Choose a recent photograph in which someone could recognise you at a meeting. You do not need a professional portrait or a staged lifestyle. Decide which image you feel comfortable making public. A photograph can introduce you, but it cannot explain your intentions or promise that another person will respond.</p><h2>Keep the setup simple</h2><p>Try soft daylight, a steady phone and an uncluttered background. Take a few photographs at a comfortable distance rather than relying on a single close-up. Ask a friend to help only if you want to. Choose the result that feels natural to you, rather than copying a pose that is difficult to maintain.</p><h2>Check the background before uploading</h2><p>Look for visible addresses, documents, work badges or details about other people. A photograph taken at home may reveal more than the subject you intended to show. If someone else appears, ask before using it or select another image. Do not include children or a friend&#39;s private setting simply to tell a story about yourself.</p><h2>Edit light without inventing a different person</h2><p>Cropping and adjusting brightness can make a photograph clearer. Before applying a filter or an AI edit, ask whether the result would create a misleading expectation at a meeting. Check what a photo-editing service says about uploaded images. The French CNIL resources below discuss personal information and editing apps.</p><h2>Let other photographs add context</h2><p>If you add an activity photograph, choose one that reflects something you genuinely do and have permission to show. A picture should not expose a precise routine or another person&#39;s identity. You can enjoy a hobby without presenting yourself as an expert, and you do not need to document every part of your daily life.</p><h2>Connect the image to an honest introduction</h2><p>Add a few words about an interest, your current intention and a conversation you would enjoy. These details give someone more to respond to than a photograph alone. Revisit the profile when your appearance or intentions change. No image choice guarantees matches; the aim is a presentation you can comfortably stand behind.</p>","image":"https://mad-in-love.com/assets/editorial/6f56f7f3d5f91e2dd77ef3863123553e476a93c9d7a004d9fd9978f510643dc4.webp","date_published":"2026-11-08T14:04:39.000Z","date_modified":"2026-11-08T14:04:39.000Z","authors":[{"name":"Daniel Ricklin"}],"tags":["Practical guide"]},{"id":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/journal/sorties-week-end-entre-amis/","url":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/journal/sorties-week-end-entre-amis/","title":"Weekend activities: finding plans and meeting new friends","summary":"Compare the activity, group size, cost and practical details before joining a weekend outing.","content_html":"<h2>Choose the activity before choosing the app</h2><p>Start with what you would like to do: visit a museum, play board games, walk in a public park or try a workshop. Then look for a way to organise it. This keeps the activity at the centre of your decision rather than making the number of available events the only criterion.</p><h2>Compare several ways to join in</h2><p>Local associations, cultural venues, clubs and community apps offer different formats. Read the actual event description instead of assuming that every listing welcomes newcomers in the same way. If you are attending alone, check whether there is an organiser to greet participants and whether joining requires approval or advance booking.</p><h2>Read the details that affect comfort</h2><p>Check the meeting point, duration, accessibility, expected effort and total cost. Ask what happens if the weather changes or the outing is cancelled. A listing does not confirm that a particular number of people will attend. Avoid paying an unfamiliar individual simply because a message creates a sense of urgency.</p><h2>Arriving alone does not require a performance</h2><p>You can start with a small question about the activity: “Have you tried this workshop before?” or “Which part of the exhibition interested you?” These fictional examples are invitations, not techniques for demanding attention. Listen to the reply and allow people to return to the activity or another conversation.</p><h2>Organise a small plan of your own</h2><p>A clear invitation can include the activity, public meeting place, approximate duration and costs. State any booking requirement and how people can withdraw. If you are organising for strangers, do not publish participants&#39; contact details or photographs without agreement. Keep the initial plan modest enough to explain and manage.</p><h2>Treat the outing as a beginning</h2><p>You may enjoy the activity without making a new friend immediately. If a conversation is mutual, suggest a next plan or ask whether the person would like to stay in touch. Participation does not create an obligation to exchange numbers. The resources below are French-language references; check local venues directly for current arrangements.</p>","image":"https://mad-in-love.com/assets/editorial/59a5cec33b998ddd9befdf9dca709fa8a1a9dda7dfdbd7b4abf6e3fe7caad9f9.webp","date_published":"2026-11-08T14:03:08.000Z","date_modified":"2026-11-08T14:03:08.000Z","authors":[{"name":"Daniel Ricklin"}],"tags":["Practical guide"]},{"id":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/journal/rencontres-apres-cinquante-ans/","url":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/journal/rencontres-apres-cinquante-ans/","title":"Dating after 50: choosing your pace and a suitable app","summary":"Start with your current life, compare practical features and decide what you want from new connections.","content_html":"<h2>Begin with your life today</h2><p>Being over 50 does not describe a single set of wishes. You may want companionship, friendship, a relationship or simply more opportunities to go out. Think about the time and energy you would like to share now. You do not need to reproduce an earlier relationship or fit someone else&#39;s timetable.</p><h2>Compare uses rather than age labels</h2><p>A service described as being for older people may or may not suit your preferences. Look at available profiles, how conversations work, the visibility settings and the activities in your area. A polished presentation does not establish local participation. Try what is accessible before deciding whether a paid feature has a clear purpose for you.</p><h2>Read the total price before subscribing</h2><p>If you consider an optional subscription, compare the full amount charged, the covered period and the renewal arrangements. A monthly equivalent is not necessarily a monthly payment. Check the terms for the channel you use. Keep a confirmation of cancellation when relevant, and consult the service itself if a charge or condition is unclear.</p><h2>Keep room for offline opportunities</h2><p>A class, a cultural visit or a regular local activity can offer another way to meet people. Choose something that interests you even without a romantic outcome. For a first personal meeting, agree on a public place and a plan you can comfortably leave. You are free to keep the meeting short.</p><h2>Distinguish attention from financial pressure</h2><p>Messages of affection do not justify a request for money, investment, banking information or an authentication code. The French Cybermalveillance resource below discusses romance scams. If an exchange becomes financial or threatening, stop and seek appropriate support rather than trying to prove trust by paying. A paid app cannot certify everyone&#39;s intentions.</p><h2>Decide from your actual experience</h2><p>After exploring, ask what you have learned: do the exchanges feel reciprocal, are the settings understandable and are there activities you want to join? You can continue, change services or take a break. These choices are not a judgment on your attractiveness. This guide offers general ideas, not a promise of dates or relationships.</p><h2>Plan a meeting that fits your life</h2><p>Fictional examples to adapt to your circumstances rather than your age. If you still work or support a relative, suggest a time you can actually manage: “I’m free on Thursday after six for a one-hour coffee.” If you live far apart, discuss travel and budget before planning a whole day; a video call remains optional and does not by itself verify identity.</p><p>If you want a relationship without living together, saying so early avoids an unspoken expectation: “I’d enjoy time together while keeping my own home.” If you are dating after bereavement, you do not have to share that story before you want to. These situations can apply at other ages too: express a specific constraint or wish instead of assuming everyone over 50 has the same background.</p>","image":"https://mad-in-love.com/assets/editorial/b569a1c2e6567863c05a92d9f14673ec041b6762c716ec43b57f2cfabe27fe81.webp","date_published":"2026-11-08T14:01:36.000Z","date_modified":"2026-11-08T21:26:39.000Z","authors":[{"name":"Daniel Ricklin"}],"tags":["Practical guide"]},{"id":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/journal/rencontres-apres-separation/","url":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/journal/rencontres-apres-separation/","title":"Dating after a breakup: starting again at your own pace","summary":"Clarify what you want now, write a profile in the present and choose a first meeting without a fixed deadline.","content_html":"<h2>Do not turn dating into a deadline</h2><p>There is no timetable in this guide for when you should start meeting people again. You might want conversation without a new relationship, or you might prefer a pause. Begin with what you want to explore now. You do not have to demonstrate recovery by creating a profile or accepting an invitation.</p><h2>Separate a conversation from a commitment</h2><p>Wanting company for a coffee is not the same as being ready to build a couple. Saying this early can prevent a misunderstanding. A fictional message could be: “I would enjoy getting to know someone, but I want to take things gradually.” The other person is also free to prefer a different pace.</p><h2>Write your profile from the present</h2><p>Choose a few details about your current interests and availability. You can protect the privacy of a former partner and avoid making an account of the breakup public. A new introduction does not need to compare the next person with the previous one. Use words you could comfortably continue in conversation.</p><h2>Make the first meeting easy to leave</h2><p>A short coffee or a public cultural activity can be a possible starting point if both people want it. Agree on a place and a duration that suit you. Keep your own way home and do not share a private address just to make arrangements easier. You can decline or change a plan.</p><h2>Notice your experience without forcing a conclusion</h2><p>Afterwards, consider whether you felt comfortable, heard and interested in another conversation. You do not need to decide immediately whether someone could become a partner. If the exchange does not suit you, a clear refusal can be enough. If distress is interfering with daily life, appropriate individual support may be more useful than another dating rule.</p><h2>Keep control of your resources</h2><p>Do not send money, authentication codes or identity documents to someone you have just met online. Affectionate messages do not make a financial request safe. The French resources below discuss privacy and romance scams. Rebuilding a social life can also involve friends and activities; it does not have to depend on finding a new partner.</p><h2>Three situations, three possible first steps</h2><p>Fictional situations: these are examples of choices, not stages to follow. If you mainly want a social life again, suggest a group activity and state that you are looking for friendship. If you like someone but do not want a couple relationship, you could say: “I’d like to get to know you, but I don’t want to promise a relationship right now.” They remain free not to continue.</p><p>If your daily life includes children, a housing transition or commitments involving a former partner, choose a realistic time and keep other people’s information private. You can explain your availability without describing their lives. Afterwards, ask yourself: do I want to see this person again, or mainly repeat the activity? Those two answers may point to different next steps.</p>","image":"https://mad-in-love.com/assets/editorial/6c5b2121653860689d7b14673fe65a06fa855d4cf2c158255fb911af15307a1e.webp","date_published":"2026-11-08T14:00:05.000Z","date_modified":"2026-11-08T21:59:20.000Z","authors":[{"name":"Daniel Ricklin"}],"tags":["Perspective"]},{"id":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/journal/exemples-presentation-site-rencontre/","url":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/journal/exemples-presentation-site-rencontre/","title":"Dating site bio: 10 annotated examples to adapt","summary":"Ten fictional bios with their strengths and limits, to help you write a personal profile without copying or revealing your private life.","content_html":"<h2>Fictional examples to help you find your own words</h2><p>The ten texts below are editorial creations: they do not come from any member profile and are not testimonials. They are meant to compare ways of introducing yourself, without promising more replies or dates. Don’t copy a hobby or an intention that doesn’t fit you. For each example, decide what you want to keep from the structure, then replace the details with your own words. A bio can stay short: the aim is to help someone understand what interests you and to start a conversation you have chosen.</p><h2>1. A short bio that opens a conversation</h2><p>Fictional example: “I like walks that end up in a bookshop and films we’re still discussing the next day. I’m looking to get to know someone at an easy pace. What book or film has recently made you want to talk about it?”</p><p>This text gives two details and a question that is easy to pick up on. It doesn’t describe an entire personality and doesn’t turn a first exchange into a commitment. To adapt: choose a topic you genuinely want to talk about. Avoid a question meant only to get a reply.</p><h2>2. A concrete detail rather than a list of qualities</h2><p>Fictional example: “On Sundays I try out a new recipe: sometimes it works, sometimes it needs another go. I’d be happy to meet someone who enjoys discovering little things and who can say what they like.”</p><p>An everyday detail makes the conversation more concrete than “friendly, curious and a lover of good food”. The last sentence describes a preference, without requiring the other person to match a list. To adapt: replace cooking with an activity you actually do, without inventing a passion to seem more interesting.</p><h2>3. Saying clearly that you’re looking for friendship</h2><p>Fictional example: “I’d like to widen my circle of friends through walks, exhibitions or a coffee after work. I’m looking first and foremost for friendly conversations and small-group outings.”</p><p>The intention is stated before the other person imagines a different plan. The activities offer possibilities, not an imposed programme. To adapt: keep only the outings that suit you, mention your pace if that helps, and keep the freedom to decline an invitation. An outing creates no obligation to continue.</p><h2>4. Getting back into dating without recounting the whole breakup</h2><p>Fictional example: “I’d like to meet new people and take the time to let a conversation unfold. A coffee in a public place or a short walk would suit me to start with.”</p><p>You can express your pace without recounting a breakup or talking about an ex-partner. This text describes a modest next step. To adapt: don’t promise a relationship or an availability you don’t want. The details of your story are yours to share only if and when you decide.</p><h2>5. Stating a calm pace without putting yourself down</h2><p>Fictional example: “I prefer a few attentive exchanges to conversations at full speed. If the interest is mutual, we can choose a simple date, with no pressure.”</p><p>The text expresses a preference instead of presenting reserve as a flaw. It also leaves room for the other person’s choice. To adapt: say what suits you rather than what everyone else should do. You don’t have to reply immediately to prove your interest, and nobody owes you constant availability.</p><h2>6. Talking about your availability while protecting your loved ones</h2><p>Fictional example: “My daily life is pretty full, but I like setting aside a chosen moment to get to know someone. I’m generally available for a short outing at the end of the day, to be arranged together.”</p><p>A general indication can help without publishing a precise schedule. There’s no need to give your children’s timetables, their school or the times when your home is empty. To adapt: describe your availability in broad terms and confirm practical details in an appropriate exchange, without sharing information about your loved ones.</p><h2>7. Suggesting an activity that genuinely suits you</h2><p>Fictional example: “I enjoy quiet places where you can talk and outings that are easy to organise. A museum or a café with a comfortable space appeals to me more than a noisy night out.”</p><p>You can talk about your practical preferences without justifying every need or disclosing medical information. What is comfortable for one person isn’t necessarily so for another. To adapt: state the conditions that matter to you, then check the actual features of the venue before you go.</p><h2>8. Giving local context without publishing your address</h2><p>Fictional example: “I enjoy discovering exhibitions and walks around my town. I’d be up for swapping a few ideas for outings and then choosing a public place that suits us both.”</p><p>The context helps people picture a shared activity. It requires neither a home address nor a detailed usual route. To adapt: stay at a geographic scale you’re comfortable with. Avoid stating the days and times when you’re alone in a specific place, or showing contact details in a profile screenshot.</p><h2>9. Setting a boundary in a positive way</h2><p>Fictional example: “I’d like to chat here to begin with and take time to see whether we want to meet. I appreciate conversations where everyone can say yes, no or not yet.”</p><p>A boundary can be clear without becoming an attack on other users. To adapt: phrase your choice in words you’ll then use in the conversation. Another person’s insistence doesn’t oblige you to share a number, send a picture or accept a date.</p><h2>10. Adding a touch of humour that is still yours</h2><p>Fictional example: “I know how to put together a picnic, but I sometimes pick the day it rains. If you have a plan B for a walk, we already have something to talk about.”</p><p>Humour sets a tone without mocking anyone or using provocation to force a reaction. To adapt: choose an anecdote you could genuinely tell. If a phrase doesn’t sound like you, a simple sentence will be easier to build on than a character you’d have to play.</p><h2>Rewriting your bio in three steps</h2><p>First, note down a true detail from your daily life, then a current intention and a possible opening for conversation. For example: “an activity I enjoy”, “what I’d like to discover”, “a question or an outing that’s easy to suggest”. Put these elements together in a few sentences and read them aloud. Remove adjectives that nothing backs up, contact details and overly broad promises. Finally, ask yourself whether someone can understand your intention without having to guess your story. This method is a writing aid, not a recipe for success.</p><h2>Review before publishing, and keep the right to change</h2><p>Choose a recent photo that represents you and check what appears in the background: a document, a number plate, a badge or an address. For the text, don’t publish information about someone else without their consent. The CNIL guidance below can help you limit what you share on dating apps. Your bio can evolve with what you want; it doesn’t commit you to replying to everyone or accepting a date. Our guides on profile photos and bios complement these examples.</p>","image":"https://mad-in-love.com/assets/editorial/45494e9f9b83c4821c1f9b9ec305e9208a0b66d3eebe2b9f754a406efa526923.webp","date_published":"2026-11-08T12:28:34.000Z","date_modified":"2026-11-08T12:28:34.000Z","authors":[{"name":"Daniel Ricklin"}],"tags":["Communication"]},{"id":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/journal/mad2moi-avis/","url":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/journal/mad2moi-avis/","title":"Mad2Moi: how it works, free access and Premium","summary":"Mad2Moi is owned by the same publisher as Mad in Love. This guide explains its features, free access limits, Premium, renewal, privacy and practical drawbacks; it is not an independent review.","content_html":"<h2>Our verdict and our relationship with Mad2Moi</h2><p>Mad2Moi is worth exploring if you want dating, friendship and community in one adult service. Profiles, discussion rooms, live streams and events offer different ways to connect. Whether it suits you depends on the activity and people accessible in your area.</p><p>Disclosure: Mad in Love, Mad2Moi and Madintouch share the same owner, Daniel Ricklin. This is a critical presentation of our own service, based on official public pages checked on 8 November 2026. It is not an independent hands-on test. We have not invented user testimonials, ratings or success rates.</p><h2>What is Mad2Moi?</h2><p>Mad2Moi is a French app for adults aged 18 and over, available on iPhone, Android and the web. It accommodates friendship, serious dating, casual connections and consensual exploration, including linked partner profiles. State your intentions rather than assuming others share them.</p><p>Mad in Love is the journal you are reading. Member profiles and conversations belong to Mad2Moi. Reading this article does not create an app account.</p><h2>Who might find it useful?</h2><p>It may appeal to single people seeking more than photo browsing, adults looking for friends, and partners who want to communicate their interests openly. A varied community does not mean every person welcomes every kind of approach.</p><p>If you need a narrowly specialized service or expect many immediately available matches in a small town, explore first. Sixteen interface languages do not demonstrate equal member activity in sixteen markets.</p><h2>Profiles, intentions and compatibility</h2><p>Official pages describe photos, intentions, compatibility questionnaires and linking a partner’s profile. Advanced filters belong to Premium. These features provide conversation starters, not predictions of relationship success.</p><p>A useful profile can be simple: a few genuine interests, your preferred pace and a clear intention. Do not publish your home address, workplace details or sensitive documents to make your profile feel complete.</p><h2>Discussion rooms, stories and live streams</h2><p>Community tools include thematic rooms, a feed, stories and live streams. Participating in a conversation can be a more natural first step than immediately proposing a date.</p><p>Access conditions differ. The pricing page describes adult rooms as available to verified women and Premium members, and distinguishes watching from hosting live streams. Check the current conditions for your account rather than assuming that downloading the app unlocks everything.</p><h2>Events and activities</h2><p>A coffee, walk or cultural activity can be a comfortable way to meet people without making romance the sole objective. Mad2Moi has a public event calendar that can be viewed without an account, with participation subject to the event’s conditions.</p><p>A listing does not prove an event took place or guarantee attendance, availability or free admission. Check dates, location, costs and organizer instructions. Choose an activity you would enjoy even without a romantic outcome.</p><h2>Getting started</h2><p>Use the official download page to choose iPhone, Android or the browser version. Registration is advertised as free and requiring no payment card. The service is strictly for adults.</p><p>Create an honest introduction, use photographs you are entitled to publish and review visibility settings. Installing an app and purchasing Premium are different steps. Explore the features available to your account before deciding whether to subscribe.</p><h2>What is actually free?</h2><p>The official pricing page lists registration, profiles, discovery, matches, limited likes and events among free uses. Private messaging is not universally free and unlimited. It currently describes three introductory messages during a new account’s first 24 hours, followed by optional mobile-ad unlocks, up to five messages per day.</p><p>These rules may change. Read the limits shown in your account. Free registration should not be confused with unrestricted access to every feature.</p><h2>What Premium adds</h2><p>Premium is presented as including unlimited private messages and likes, received likes, profile visitors, incognito browsing, advanced filters, priority messages and a monthly Boost. These are usage tools; they do not guarantee replies or dates.</p><p>Subscribe for a feature you can identify as useful. An upgrade cannot guarantee that compatible, active people will be available near you.</p><h2>Prices: the total charge matters</h2><p>On 8 November 2026 the French website lists €14.99 for one month, €34.99 for three months, and €99.99 for twelve months. The latter two correspond to roughly €11.66 and €8.33 per month, but are charged for the full period. The annual plan is not twelve separate €8.33 payments.</p><p>Terms state that prices can vary by country and purchase channel, including web, App Store and Google Play. Check the total, currency, duration and renewal terms at checkout. These euro figures are not a worldwide price promise.</p><h2>Verified women and linked partners</h2><p>The pricing page offers Premium access to women who complete video-selfie verification, with an exception for the visitor list and a stated seven-day introduction to that list. It should not be summarized as every feature being free to every woman.</p><p>For partners, clarify who is writing and what each person has agreed to. Linked profiles do not replace individual consent. The terms specify one account per natural person; check how profile linking currently works in the app.</p><h2>Renewal and cancellation</h2><p>Standard subscriptions purchased by card, PayPal or through an app store renew automatically unless cancelled before the deadline. Cancelling prevents the next renewal; it does not turn an already paid annual plan into a monthly contract. Access normally continues through the paid period.</p><p>Manage in-app purchases through the relevant app store and web purchases through the account’s subscription-management route. Uninstalling the app is not cancellation. Keep the confirmation and verify your next billing date.</p><h2>Moderation and safety</h2><p>Mad2Moi describes continuous automated moderation complemented by human review of reported or escalated cases, with reporting and blocking tools. These measures do not certify every user’s identity or intentions.</p><p>Stop if someone asks for money, investments, login codes or personal documents. For a first meeting, choose a public place and retain an independent way home. Our confidence guide covers practical precautions; no service can promise absolute safety.</p><h2>Privacy and account deletion</h2><p>Official pages describe European hosting, privacy settings and deletion within the app. Optional fields do not have to be completed simply because they exist. Read the privacy policy for retention and processing details.</p><p>Account deletion and subscription cancellation are separate actions to verify. Cookie preferences on Mad in Love do not replace preferences on Mad2Moi. App screenshots were anonymized locally: faces are blurred and names, identifiers and private messages are hidden.</p><h2>Strengths and drawbacks</h2><p>Strengths include several ways to connect, friendship alongside dating, mobile and browser access, and community participation. These can suit people who prefer shared interests and activities as an introduction.</p><p>Limitations include unverified local density, important paid features, differing access rules and the need to communicate clearly in a varied community. Total registered accounts would not tell you how many compatible people are active nearby. We do not assign a manufactured score.</p><h2>A practical way to try it</h2><p>Set a small goal: write an honest profile, explore a relevant room and send a personal opening message if your access allows it. For example: “You mentioned walking without a route. Do you prefer discovering a neighborhood or heading into nature?”</p><p>Assess reciprocal conversations, accessible activities and how comfortable the service feels. Upgrade only if a specific Premium feature and the total price make sense for you. Silence does not justify repeated messages.</p><h2>FAQ: serious dating, friendship and international use</h2><p>Is Mad2Moi free? Registration and several uses are free with limits; messaging has specific conditions. Can you seek a serious relationship or friendship? Both are stated uses; make your intention clear.</p><p>Is it international? The interface has sixteen languages, without a promise of equal activity in every country. Does Premium guarantee a meeting? No. Do you need to pay before exploring? Registration is advertised as free.</p><h2>Conclusion and sources</h2><p>Consider Mad2Moi if you want an adult community that combines conversation, activities and clearly stated intentions. Its value for you depends on actual activity and your preferred way of meeting people.</p><p>This guide uses the official homepage, pricing, terms, privacy policy, download page and event calendar checked on 8 November 2026. Features and prices can change.</p><h2>How we checked the Community area</h2><p>On 9 November 2026, we viewed the feed, rooms, lives, events and shorts with the official M2M presentation account. This team account has complimentary Premium: this check does not represent a new free member’s experience. We tested the event date filter without joining a room, starting a live, contacting a member or booking an event. No live was running during the check; this does not describe usual activity. The screenshot shows only the French interface, without member data. Registration, payments and relationship outcomes were not tested.</p>","image":"https://mad-in-love.com/assets/editorial/8e89250362e7a9b9b357942f27ac5df768686edb0df93e6fb2bf4645d6c4416a.webp","date_published":"2026-11-08T01:17:21.000Z","date_modified":"2026-11-09T01:38:23.000Z","authors":[{"name":"Daniel Ricklin"}],"tags":["Dossier"]},{"id":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/guides/rencontrer-en-confiance/","url":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/guides/rencontrer-en-confiance/","title":"Date with confidence","summary":"Practical steps before, during and after a first date.","content_html":"<h2>Before meeting</h2><p>Decide what you are comfortable sharing. You do not owe a new contact your home address, workplace, identity documents or intimate images. Take your time and keep control over the conversation.</p><h2>Make a simple plan</h2><p>Choose a public place, arrange your own transport and let a trusted person know where you are going. A call beforehand can help you prepare, but does not guarantee someone’s identity or intentions.</p><h2>Notice pressure</h2><p>Requests for money, investment offers or login codes are reasons to stop. Never send money to someone you have only met online. You can end a conversation and block a contact without explaining yourself.</p><h2>Consent stays specific</h2><p>Agreeing to coffee is not agreeing to touch, a photograph or a visit home. Ask rather than assume. Anyone can change their mind. You are free to leave if you feel uncomfortable.</p><h2>After the date</h2><p>Choose whether to meet again without guilt. A clear, kind message is enough. If harassment or fraud occurs, keep useful evidence and use the service’s reporting tools.</p><h2>Where should you go on a first date?</h2><p>A busy café, an easy-to-reach terrace or a cultural venue with a reception area let you talk without planning a whole afternoon. Focus above all on the practical side: can you get there and leave by your own means, are there staff on site, does the place suit you in terms of accessibility and budget? A well-known address does not guarantee safety. Suggest a short length of time that you can extend together if you both feel like it. Avoid giving out your home as a meeting point. If the location changes at the last minute to somewhere isolated, you can stick to your original suggestion or cancel.</p><h2>How do you say you would rather take your time?</h2><p>You can write: “I’m enjoying this conversation. I’d rather keep chatting here a little longer before planning to meet.” If you do want to meet the person, a specific suggestion can still be gentle: “A coffee early on Saturday afternoon would suit me; maybe just an hour to start with?” You do not have to apologize for your pace. Notice, too, how someone reacts to a simple boundary. A person can be disappointed and still respect it; guilt-tripping, threats or repeated insistence are not signs of sincerity. Do not feel obliged to speed up just to avoid losing a conversation.</p><h2>What if the spark isn’t there?</h2><p>The impression left by a written conversation can differ from the one you get face to face. That does not mean anyone did anything wrong. You can end the date at the agreed time, say thank you for the conversation and decide afterwards what comes next. If you already know you do not wish to continue, a short message avoids leaving someone in ambiguous expectation: “Thanks for the coffee. I didn’t feel a wish to continue, and I’d rather tell you simply.” You do not have to debate your choice. If the exchange becomes threatening, put your safety first and seek help suited to the situation.</p><h2>A little preparation that leaves room for spontaneity</h2><p>Before you leave, check your route, your phone battery and a way to get home. Decide what you would like to share without preparing a performance. Two subjects you truly love are worth more than a list of questions to get right. During the date, you can slow down, change the subject or ask for a break. Afterwards, ask yourself less whether you were convincing than whether you felt listened to. These pointers apply to women, men, LGBTQIA+ people and couples: each person keeps their own power to decide.</p>","image":"https://mad-in-love.com/assets/confidence-riverside-v1.webp","date_published":"2026-11-06T00:00:00.000Z","authors":[{"name":"Daniel Ricklin"}],"tags":["Practical guide"]},{"id":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/guides/premier-message/","url":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/guides/premier-message/","title":"A thoughtful first message","summary":"There is no magic line. Conversation starts with attention.","content_html":"<h2>Start with a real detail</h2><p>Choose something the person decided to share publicly, such as a book or activity. Avoid assumptions about their body or intimate life. The purpose is to invite a conversation, not to secure a reply.</p><h2>Observe, share, ask</h2><p>Try: “You mentioned exploring cities without a plan. I do that too. Do you prefer an early start or an evening walk?” Adapt it to your own voice and a real detail from the profile.</p><h2>Leave room</h2><p>One thoughtful question is often better than a list. Listen to the answer instead of following a script. No one owes you a personal story.</p><h2>Respect silence</h2><p>A well-written message does not create an obligation to answer. Avoid repeated messages, complaints or finding the person on other services.</p><h2>Suggest something easy to decline</h2><p>If the conversation is mutual, suggest a short meeting in public. Make it clear that continuing to chat is equally fine.</p><h2>Three sample first messages to adapt</h2><p>For a shared passion: “You mention film photography; I’ve actually been trying to take the time to look at things again. What subject makes you want to get your camera out?” For an activity: “Your Sunday walk really spoke to me. Do you tend to pick an unfamiliar street or a place where you feel at ease?” For a short introduction: “I liked the tone of your introduction. What would make a conversation enjoyable for you here?” These lines are starting points. Keep only what sounds like you, and do not invent a shared interest to get a reply.</p><h2>What can you say when an introduction has few details?</h2><p>A short introduction is not an invitation to immediately ask for intimate information. You can share a small detail from your daily life and ask a light question: “I’ve finally found a café where I can read in peace. Do you need calm or movement to switch off?” The other person can answer at their own comfort level. Avoid commenting on the lack of text as if it were a flaw to fix. If you need to know more before continuing, just say so. A conversation may also simply not get started, and there is no point in making repeated approaches.</p><h2>Writing as a couple without speaking for each other</h2><p>If a couple gets in touch, be clear about who is writing and what discussion has already taken place between you. “We read your introduction together; we’d like to start by chatting, if that works for you” is more transparent than a message that leaves doubt about who is involved. Each of you should be able to take part in your own words. Do not present a third person as the solution to a disagreement in the couple. Ask what they themselves want, and leave them free to decline a group conversation. An introduction written by two people never replaces the individual agreement of each person.</p><h2>Should you follow up after a message goes unanswered?</h2><p>No waiting period or wording creates a right to a reply. A person may be busy, unsure, may have left the service or may not wish to continue. You can let the message go without following up. If a conversation was already under way, a brief, pressure-free follow-up can remain an invitation; after that, the lack of a reply is reason enough to stop. Avoid reproaches, tests, additional accounts or searching for the person on other networks. The best sign for moving forward remains a reciprocal exchange, in which both people find their place.</p>","image":"https://mad-in-love.com/assets/rencontre-femmes-terrasse.webp","date_published":"2026-11-06T00:00:00.000Z","authors":[{"name":"Daniel Ricklin"}],"tags":["Communication"]},{"id":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/guides/parler-en-couple/","url":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/guides/parler-en-couple/","title":"Couples: talking about wishes","summary":"Expressing curiosity never creates an obligation to act.","content_html":"<h2>An idea is not an agreement</h2><p>Curiosity does not mean readiness to act. Begin by explaining whether you want to share a thought, ask a question or discuss a concrete change.</p><h2>Choose the moment</h2><p>Ask for a quiet time to talk. Avoid important conversations in the middle of an argument or under the influence of alcohol. Make room for pauses.</p><h2>A no is not a challenge</h2><p>Each person can name wishes, uncertainty and boundaries. A refusal is not a test of trust. Decisions should not rely on fear of losing a partner.</p><h2>Be specific</h2><p>If considering a change, talk about time, privacy, what you want to share afterwards and how to pause. Other people have their own boundaries and are not accessories to a couple.</p><h2>Return to the conversation</h2><p>Agree to check in even if nothing happens. Either person may decide to change nothing. If discussions involve ongoing distress or coercion, appropriate professional support may help.</p><h2>What questions should you ask before meeting other people?</h2><p>Start with what this means to you: are you looking for a shared experience, separate connections, a conversation or simply to understand a curiosity? Then talk about the time available, the discretion you want, the information that may be shared and what would make you uncomfortable. An uncertain answer can stay uncertain. Do not turn a list of questions into a contract to sign in a hurry. If you cannot reach an agreement that is freely given and understood by each of you, the next step may be to keep talking rather than to arrange a meeting.</p><h2>Talking about jealousy without treating it as a verdict</h2><p>Jealousy can cover different worries: not having enough time together, comparing yourself, losing a habit or not understanding what is being planned. Try wording that describes your own experience: “When our plans change without us talking about it, I feel left out. I need to understand what matters to us.” This does not solve everything, but it opens up a concrete question. Avoid using the emotion as proof that someone is incapable of freedom, or that they must accept something in order to grow. You can decide to slow down or to change nothing.</p><h2>Preparing a first conversation with three or more people</h2><p>Everyone should know who is taking part and what the meeting is meant to be. Make clear whether it is a coffee to get acquainted, with no expectation of anything further. Ask which first names to use, communication preferences and any boundaries regarding photos or social media. Do not talk only between partners while leaving the other person waiting for a decision. A couple may have a shared history, but that does not give their word more value. Plan a simple way for each person to ask for a break or to withdraw, both before and during the meeting.</p><h2>Taking stock after an exchange, even if nothing happens</h2><p>An online conversation can already stir up emotions and expectations. Set aside a calm moment to ask what you enjoyed, what surprised you and what needs clarifying. Talk first about your own experience rather than assessing your partner’s. An agreement can be adjusted or withdrawn; that does not erase the obligation to respect the people already involved. Do not share their private messages to reassure each other without their permission. If tension persists, pausing the process and seeking appropriate support may be more useful than adding more rules.</p>","image":"https://mad-in-love.com/assets/couple-conversation.webp","date_published":"2026-11-06T00:00:00.000Z","authors":[{"name":"Daniel Ricklin"}],"tags":["Communication"]},{"id":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/guides/rencontres-inclusives/","url":"https://mad-in-love.com/en/guides/rencontres-inclusives/","title":"Inclusive dating: room for everyone","summary":"Identity, orientation and pronouns: respect comes first.","content_html":"<h2>Let people define themselves</h2><p>Use the name and pronouns someone shares. If unsure, ask simply without requesting an explanation of their personal history. Correct a mistake briefly and move on with care.</p><h2>Do not infer intentions</h2><p>Identity and orientation do not tell you which activities or relationships someone wants. Being part of a couple is not consent to a group date. Ask about intentions instead of assuming.</p><h2>Protect privacy</h2><p>Do not share someone’s messages, photos or identity without permission. People have different family, work and local circumstances. Social media access is not a required proof of sincerity.</p><h2>Make room for every person</h2><p>When a couple meets another person, everyone needs space to speak and decline. Avoid treating someone as a role to fill.</p><h2>Choose your setting</h2><p>You may prefer a familiar public place or a short first meeting. No venue or platform can guarantee freedom from discrimination. You can leave, block and report an exchange that devalues you.</p><h2>How can you share your intentions without reducing yourself to a label?</h2><p>You can name your identity if you wish, then describe the relationship you would like to explore: a conversation, a gentle meeting, an ongoing connection or a desire you are still thinking through. “I’m a bi woman and I’d like to take the time to get to know someone” gives chosen information without promising any particular availability. You can also keep some details for later. An introduction is not a file to complete in order to be legitimate. Leave the other person the same freedom and ask what matters today, rather than interpreting a category.</p><h2>Choosing words and simply repairing a misstep</h2><p>Use the terms a person uses for themselves. If you are unsure about a name or pronoun, a brief question may be enough: “How would you like me to address you?” An answer does not entitle you to ask questions about their body, their personal processes or their past. If you make a mistake, correct yourself without asking the other person to spend time reassuring you. The quality of an exchange also shows in this ability to listen. Words may vary across languages and people; a translation does not replace attention to the context of the conversation.</p><h2>Protecting your privacy without having to justify yourself</h2><p>You may prefer to share a photo later, use a chosen name or meet somewhere away from your neighborhood. These choices should remain compatible with the rules of the service you are using and with an honest presentation of your intentions. Do not ask someone to make their orientation public as proof of trust. Discuss what may be said to people close to you and what should stay between you. A joint post, a tag or a group photo can reveal more than expected. Ask for consent before posting and accept that it may be refused.</p><h2>An inclusive welcome is built throughout the whole date</h2><p>Inclusion does not stop at a word in an introduction. It also involves listening, the accessibility of the place, the way an activity is suggested and the possibility of changing your mind. A person may enjoy one compliment and refuse another; the members of a couple may have different expectations. Ask concrete questions and allow time to answer. If a remark hurts you, you can name it or end the exchange. You are under no obligation to turn a date into an explanatory session in order to deserve respect.</p>","image":"https://mad-in-love.com/assets/rencontres-diversite.webp","date_published":"2026-11-06T00:00:00.000Z","authors":[{"name":"Daniel Ricklin"}],"tags":["Perspective"]}]}